Parents everywhere seek a close emotional bond with their babies. They also strive to develop a parenting style that works with their values. Some parenting models favor treating children as little adults to be reasoned with. Others take an approach that stresses rule-following. They all aim to create self-reliant adults who can maintain healthy relationships and have families of their own.With so much advice on different styles of parenting, how do you know what works? Sometimes trial and error work best. Every parent tests different approaches to see what ultimately works for the parent and the children.Attachment parenting focuses on the nurturing connection that parents can develop with their children. That nurturing connection is viewed as the ideal way to raise secure, independent, and empathetic children.Raising and trying to heal a child with a disorder of attachment or serious attachment disturbance is clearly a daunting challenge. Typically, parents struggle alone with the overwhelming sense that something is terribly wrong but not knowing what it is or how to fix it. Often, children with severe attachment problems manage to divide the adults in their lives, pitting the outside world against the family. This is usually a defensive strategy that helps them prevent closeness with their parents -- the thing that they most fear! Sadly, the outside world often misunderstands this, and the parents are blamed for the problems.Without a way to understand what is happening, it is too easy for parents to blame themselves. And sometimes, when parents are at the end of their ropes, it is too easy to blame the child. When a vulnerable family most needs help, support, and understanding, too often, the result is to become more isolated and estranged from supportive resources.Parents are then left alone in their own struggles to reach, manage, and help their clearly wounded child. For many parents, when they first learn of the terms "attachment disorder" or "Reactive Attachment Disorder," it is literally like someone threw them a lifeline when they were drowning in a storm at sea. Suddenly, there is a name for this problem that has overwhelmed their family, robbed them of even essential connection with their child, and, perhaps, even caused them to profoundly doubt their ability to be a parent. Sadly, for many, this momentary sense of hope is often then shattered by stories of devastating outcomes for these children. The purpose of this book is to try to help parents understand this severe challenge to their children's development and functioning while offering practical help.Attachment does not exist in the child alone; instead, it is how that child learns to connect with and relate to significant others -- especially parents and primary caregivers.What is important to remember is that the child's behaviors are symptoms of distorted thinking and feeling that came from early experiences with primary caregivers. We cannot talk children out of these ways of being. We cannot punish children out of these ways of being (indeed, doing so may only worsen!). Instead, we need to help children experience their way out of these habits of relating by offering them healthy relationships that provide the nurturing experiences they required when they were younger. The kind of experience they most need experiences with new or recovered parents who can really feel what it is to be them; help them make sense of what has happened to them in a way that does not mean they are unlovable and unworthy; and, learn new ways of relating that allows emotional connection and trust to grow. That can be a challenge when the child actively pushes against the parent's attempts to love and care for the child.
In "Resilience of The Soul," forgiveness is explored with depth and nuance, revealing it to be a journey fraught with intellectual and emotional challenges. Drawing on a rich tapestry of philosophical and theological perspectives, the author delves into the complexities of forgiveness, shedding light on its resistance to easy comprehension. Through a creative dialogue with the works of thinkers such as Simone Weil and René Girard, the book navigates the terrain of forgiveness, examining the tensions and ambiguities inherent in forgiving and being forgiven. Rather than presenting forgiveness as a straightforward process, the author argues that it involves a profound transformation of understanding, akin to a spiritual journey of death and resurrection. The book elucidates forgiveness as a paradoxical endeavor that defies simple categorization and demands a willingness to embrace ambiguity. It challenges conventional notions of judgment and rationality, calling for patience and acceptance in tension and uncertainty.
"The Silent Cry" delves into the often overlooked and susceptible subject of children's struggle with self-harm. The book explores the hidden pain that many children carry, providing invaluable insights for parents, educators, and caregivers.The book sheds light on the silent cries of children who grapple with the complexities of self-harm. It navigates through the layers of emotions, uncovering the root causes and offering practical strategies to help children overcome their pain.It is a roadmap for parents and caregivers, equipping them with the knowledge and skills necessary to navigate the delicate terrain of a child's emotional well-being. It is a call to action, urging society to break the silence surrounding children's mental health and advocate for a more compassionate and understanding approach.
In this groundbreaking guide, discover powerful parenting strategies to alleviate stress and foster holistic well-being within your family unit."The Mindful Family" offers a roadmap for cultivating harmony and resilience during daily chaos.Through evidence-based approaches, delve into practical methods for nurturing emotional intelligence, communication skills, and conflict resolution within your family dynamic. This book equips you with tools to navigate challenges and strengthen connections."The Mindful Family" is a transformative resource that redefines parenting, empowering families to embrace mindfulness as a cornerstone for reducing stress and fostering lifelong wellness. Embark on this enriching journey towards a more harmonious and connected family life today.
This book takes a deep dive into the intricate world of epilepsy, encompassing its diagnoses, treatment, and scholarly exploration with a keen critical eye. Its primary mission is to present a compelling argument, challenging the prevailing biomedical approach's narrow focus on the brain as the sole locus of intervention for epilepsy. By doing so, it underscores that such an exclusive perspective falls short of addressing the multidimensional needs of individuals living with epilepsy and comprehending their profound lived experiences.In response to this critical shortfall, it proposes a radical departure from the conventional reliance on pharmaceuticals and biological pathways. This innovative approach promises to unveil novel treatments and foster a profoundly holistic understanding of the human body's intricacies. By transcending the current biomedical boundaries, this approach has the power to alleviate the suffering of the estimated 70 million people worldwide who grapple with epilepsy.This book represents a beacon of hope and a new era of enlightenment in epilepsy care, potentially significantly enhancing the quality of life for countless individuals affected by this condition.
Step into a world where the power of connection and healing knows no bounds. "Horses For Healing: A Journey through Equine-Assisted Therapy" is a heartwarming and transformative exploration of the remarkable bond between humans and horses.In this captivating book, you'll embark on a journey that reveals the extraordinary therapeutic potential of our four-legged friends. Experience the profound stories of individuals whose lives have been forever changed by the grace and wisdom of these gentle giants.With immersive storytelling and vivid narrative, you'll witness the resilience of wounded souls finding solace, strength, and renewal through equine companionship. Discover how horses, with their intuitive understanding and unconditional love, become catalysts for growth and healing.Discover a world where compassion meets strength, vulnerability finds courage, and where, with the help of our equine companions, healing knows no bounds. Dive into the enchanting pages of "Horses For Healing" and let the remarkable stories within awaken your heart and spirit.
In a world that increasingly values diversity and inclusivity, "Building Bridges" offers an inspiring and informative guide for parents navigating the intricate landscape of inclusive education for their unique needs children. This heartfelt book is a must-read for anyone looking to create a brighter future for children with unique abilities. Empowerment Through Inclusivity: "Building Bridges" provides parents with the tools they need to become effective advocates for their special needs children within the educational system. Discover how to collaborate with schools and support your child's unique learning journey. Fostering Friendship and Belonging: Learn how to build bridges between special needs children and their typically developing peers. This book offers practical strategies to create inclusive communities that promote empathy, friendship, and a sense of belonging. Overcoming Obstacles: Through real-life stories and experiences, "Building Bridges" shows how parents have triumphed over challenges often accompanying the pursuit of inclusive education. From navigating IEP meetings to accessing specialized resources, you'll gain valuable insights into overcoming barriers. Celebrating Achievements: Be inspired by special needs children's remarkable successes and milestones in inclusive classrooms. "Building Bridges" demonstrates that with the right support, every child has the potential to shine. Building a Support Network: Discover the importance of connecting with other parents and professionals who can offer guidance, support, and encouragement as you embark on your journey towards inclusive education.Whether you're a parent seeking guidance, an educator looking to enhance your inclusive teaching practices, or someone passionate about fostering a more inclusive world, "Building Bridges" is a roadmap to a brighter future. Join the movement towards a society where every child is valued, celebrated, and allowed to thrive.Order your copy of "Building Bridges" today and embark on a transformative journey towards inclusive education and a more compassionate world for special needs children.
In a world where stress and anxiety dominate our lives, this book offers an enlightening and empowering guide to understanding the vagus nerve's pivotal role in our emotional health. With eloquent prose and scientific insight, this book unveils the hidden connections between our nervous system and emotional well-being, unlocking the secrets to a healthier, happier life."The Polyvagal Theory Unveiled" serves as a beacon of hope, offering readers a roadmap to harness the power of their vagus nerve to heal, rejuvenate, and thrive. Whether seeking relief from chronic stress, enhancing your emotional resilience, or simply longing for a more profound connection with yourself and others, this book provides the wisdom and tools to embark on a transformative journey toward a healthier and happier life.Prepare to be enlightened, inspired, and empowered as you uncover the life-changing potential of "The Polyvagal Theory Unveiled."
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