Böcker av Barbara Norris Arya

This Collection of Favorite Memories has given us time to remember and reflect on our parents; and to think deeply on the changes that death has brought. We have hope for the future as our parents and siblings live on in our hearts and in our combined memories. We have a treasure of our favorite memories that come alive each time we open the collection and read a few of them. We, seven of eight girls, are the only children left of our parents. As we talk to each other, we laugh and smile, while recalling both sweet and bitter memories of our family. We realized that we needed each other's help to reconstruct and validate the events, people, and places as we wrote about memories from years ago. Sometimes we corroborated each other's memories; other times we corrected the memories of each other and in the process we have created a more accurate treasury of family memories. I am greatly indebted to Bettye, Gloria, Sybil, Mary, Martha and Charlotte. Without their contributions, the book would not have materialized.

The stories Zeola told about herself show aspects of her character that was budding at age four and five, for example learning to clean and care for her home and to beautify it. She expressed her love of husband and children as she labored daily to take care of them. Preparing three meals daily, washing and cleaning as well as teaching and training her children to work and care for the home are all  expressions of her love without using words. She loved her home and  cultivated many flowers and trees on the outside. She worked hard to clean and beautify the home on the inside too. For example she made curtains for the windows and doilies for many tabletops, cushions for chairs and tablecloths for tables. She and Brenda partnered to make quilts and bedspreads for the beds. The church and community were very important to her and she gave herself to teaching children in Sunday School classes. She loved to sing and worked with the children''s choir at church for many years. Her devotion to Jesus Christ was shown in the zeal with which she took on tasks such as tending to the sick about her and helping those who were in some kind of need. Many of the examples I recount bring to light her service to others. She persisted in the face of multiple trials and afflictions; always getting up and trying again without giving up under their weight. When I began to think about her legacy, I rejoice as I look back over her life and realize that she developed enduring faith and Christian character through all of these things. She chose not to grow bitter because of them, but to submit to God''s will and to press toward victory that would someday be hers.   About the Author: Barbara Norris Arya is the third child of ten and the second daughter of eight girls born to Zeola. She is the only child who made her home away from Mississippi where the siblings live. Barbara lives on the Eastern Shore of Maryland since 1985 with her husband, Rakesh and son, Ravi Arya.